Relationships and Sexuality Education: for educators
Relationships and Sexuality Education has been a required area of learning in The New Zealand Curriculum for over 20 years.
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Relationships and Sexuality Education is one of many ways that rangatahi will learn about relationships and sexuality. School-based Relationships and Sexuality Education is designed to support and supplement kōrero at home and within communities.
This page is for educators. If you're a parent, caregiver or whānau, you can find information about Relationships and Sexuality Education.
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Relationships and Sexuality Education in The New Zealand Curriculum
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In Aotearoa New Zealand, Relationships and Sexuality Education is compulsory from years 1 to 10.
Relationships and Sexuality Education is one of the seven key areas of learning under Health and Physical Education.
Schools have flexibility around the content and delivery of their Relationships and Sexuality Education to ensure that they are meeting the needs of their students and communities.
There are key learnings that any Relationships and Sexuality Education programme must meet – and these align with the Health and Physical Education Achievement Objectives in the New Zealand Curriculum.
Under the Education and Training Act 2020, schools are required to consult with their community at least once every two years. This consultation is about how a school plans to implement their health education curriculum – which includes Relationships and Sexuality Education.
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What Relationships and Sexuality Education topics should schools be teaching?
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The Ministry of Education has developed Relationships and Sexuality Education Guidelines for teachers, leaders, and boards of trustees — available in two volumes — one for years 1 to 8 and one for years 9 to 13.
Quality Relationships and Sexuality Education in schools is evidence-based. It teaches rangatahi knowledge and skills — supporting them to form and explore their own ideas, beliefs, and values, rather than telling what to believe.
Quality Relationships and Sexuality Education celebrates the diversity of rangatahi, their whānau, and their communities. It supports rangatahi of all genders, sexual orientations, abilities, cultures, ethnicities, and religions.
Relationships and Sexuality Education topics taught at school
Primary school Intermediate High school - Respect
- Friendship
- Feelings and needs
- Family roles
- Safe and unsafe touch
- People who can help them
- Similarities and differences
- Peer pressure
- Positive body image
- Body parts
- Pubertal changes
- Personal hygiene
- Manaakitanga
- Body ownership
- Different types of relationships
- Being inclusive
- Gender and gender stereotypes
- Influence of the media
- Ways to support others
- Consent
- Decision-making
- Sexual orientation
- Gender diversity
- Sexual attraction
- Communication
- Homophobia and discrimination
- Community health care resources
- Relationships and their qualities
- Conception
- Contraception
- Safer sex
- Respect for others
- Challenging stereotypes
- Menstruation
- Nudes
- Sexting and pornography
- Gender in the media
- Intimate relationships and consent
- Reproductive systems
- STIs and safer sex strategies
- Being safe online
- Support people and agencies
- Sexuality and the law
- Break ups
- Decision-making around alcohol and drugs
- Unhealthy relationships
- Supportive strategies, people, and organisations
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How do we support schools to deliver Relationships and Sexuality Education?
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We create comprehensive Relationships and Sexuality Education programmes and resources to be used in schools and educational settings. Our programmes and resources support teachers and educators to deliver quality Relationships and Sexuality Education.
Our most popular programme, Navigating the Journey: Relationships and Sexuality Education for Years 1-10, is used in almost 50% of schools across Aotearoa. This programme is designed to meet rangatahi at their stage of development — and build on their previous year’s learning. It is full of lesson plans and activities and aligns with the Ministry of Education guidance.
Learn more about Navigating the Journey: Relationships and Sexuality Education for Years 1-10
Another popular relationships and sexuality programme that we provide is The Colours of Sexuality — designed for intellectually disabled rangatahi.
Learn more about The Colours of Sexuality
Sexual Wellbeing Aotearoa provides schools with resources and training to support teachers to deliver Relationships and Sexuality Education themselves. We offer regular Navigating the Journey Q&A sessions throughout the school year, and we have Community Health Promoters across the country that can be contacted for support if needed.
We are building a suite of resources, website content, and trainings to support teachers, parents and whānau, and other professionals working with young people in this space. Our goal is to build your knowledge and confidence to teach Relationships and Sexuality Education to your students.
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What are the benefits of Relationships and Sexuality Education?
- National and global evidence shows that quality Relationships and Sexuality Education is effective.
- Recent studies show that most parents in Aotearoa support Relationships and Sexuality Education in schools — and that rangatahi want to learn about Relationships and Sexuality Education in schools.
- Unfortunately, many rangatahi feel that their schools don’t deliver the quality of Relationships and Sexuality Education that they need.
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Quality RSE has been shown to:
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Improve sexual health outcomes
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- Encourages safer sex
- Helps prevent unintended pregnancies and sexually transmissible infections (STIs) by encouraging condom and contraceptive use
- Rangatahi are less likely to take sexual risks — such as unprotected sex
- Increases the use of contraception and condoms for first-time sexual experiences
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Prevent child sexual abuse
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- Teaches young children about bodily autonomy and communication
- Rangatahi are more likely to tell an adult that they trust if they are sexually abused
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Increase communication between rangatahi and parents, carers, and whānau
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- Encourages rangatahi to seek help when they need it
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Reduce sexual harm and sexual violence
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- Addresses the root causes and cultures of sexual violence
- Effectively reduces rape culture by supporting rangatahi to critically examine common attitudes towards sex and sexual violence
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Help develop critical thinking skills around online content and social media
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- Supports rangatahi to think about the impact of technology and how this affects their sense of self and self-worth
- Helps them to understand the impact of taking and sharing nudes or sexual images
- Increases awareness of the impact of pornography on relationships and sexuality, sexual identity, and sense of self
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Fights prejudice and builds awareness of discrimination
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- Queer positive RSE makes rangatahi feel safer and experience lower levels of bullying
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Better overall health outcomes for young people as they go through life
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- More likely to stay in education, training, or employment
- Improved mental health and wellbeing
- Remain physically healthy
- Improved mental health and physical wellbeing
- Seeking help and support when needed for all aspects of their lives
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Click on the video link, below, to watch a 12-minute webinar that covers:
- Relationships and Sexuality Education in the context of the New Zealand Curriculum
- An overview of Navigating the Journey: Years 1-10
- FAQs and answers about Relationships and Sexuality Education, and Navigating the Journey
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