Let's talk sex ed
Help shape how sex ed is taught in schools
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Have your say on how 15-18 year olds will be taught about sex ed.
The Ministry of Education is updating the curriculum which will change how sex ed (or relationship and sexuality education) is taught in schools. Public submissions are open for the Years 11-13 curriculum until 15 June.
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What's different in the draft Years 11-13 curriculum?
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The structure and approach has significantly changed from the current 2007 curriculum.
In the current (2007) curriculum
Students need to meet learning objectives for each subject
Teachers have flexibility to design how and what students learn. This means teacher can be more responsive to students’ needs but creates inconsistencies across the country
In the new curriculum
Teachers are told exactly what students should be taught, and how they need to apply this knowledge
Teachers must teach what’s listed under each topic, but can expand on it
Because the knowledge and practices that need to be taught in the new curriculum are so specific, we can see where it’s comprehensive and holistic, and where the gaps are.
Years 11-13 curriculum
The Years 11-13 (Phase 5) Health curriculum has been divided into three strands: Physical health, Mental wellbeing, and social wellbeing and within those strands, prescribed knowledge has been added on the following topics relating to sexuality education.
What’s been added
Sexual and reproductive Health
Digital world and being online
Friendships and other platonic relationships
Sexual relationships
What's not included
Taha wairua, or spiritual health, is not included as a "strand" of health, which is essential in an Aotearoa New Zealand context.
The term "Relationships and Sexuality Education" (or Sexuality Education as it's referred to in the 2007 curriculum and in the new draft Years 0-10 Health curriculum). Curriculum content from RSE or Sexuality Education is instead dispersed throughout the whole of the health curriculum and areas of the science curriculum.
Consent is not explicitly named as an element that is taught for Years 11-13
Areas of concern
The curriculum:
Lists abstinence as a means of preventing pregnancy
Lists abstinence before barrier methods as a way of preventing STI transmission
Hyperfocuses on unplanned teen pregnancy
Has very little information about sexual orientation or LGBTQIA+
Has little information about how to use a condom
Has limited information about STIs and how to protect against them
Doesn’t cover cervical cancer, HPV screening, or vaccines
Doesn’t tell people how to access to sexual health services
Doesn’t cover gender-based violence
Has limited information about infertility prevention and care
Doesn’t give students the skills to identify misinformation or disinformation
Has limited information about consent
Doesn’t cover rough sex and non-fatal strangulation
Uses the term “unplanned pregnancy” rather than “unintended pregnancy”
Says sexual partners need to notice when there are changes to their bodies to prevent the spread of STIs. This ignores the fact that many people with STIs don’t have any symptoms
Uses the terms “biologically female” and “biologically male”
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What's happening with the curriculum for different year groups?
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The draft Years 0-10 curriculum was released for public submissions on 28 October 2025. Submissions were open until 24 April 2026.
The Ministry of Education announced on 14 May 2026 that some learning areas of the Years 0-8 curriculum, including Health and Physical Education, will not be mandated until 2029.
The Years 9-10 curriculum for all learning areas will be implemented in 2027.
The final curriculum for Years 0-10 will be released in mid-2026.
The draft Years 11-13 curriculum was released for public consultation on 15 May. Submissions are open until 15 June.
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What's different in the new Years 0-10 curriculum?
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The structure and approach has significantly changed from the current 2007 curriculum.
In the current (2007) curriculum
Students need to meet learning objectives for each subject
Teachers have flexibility to design how and what students learn. This means teacher can be more responsive to students’ needs but creates inconsistencies across the country
In the new curriculum
Teachers are told exactly what students should be taught, and how they need to apply this knowledge
Teachers must teach what’s listed under each topic, but can expand on it
Because the knowledge and practices that need to be taught in the new curriculum are so specific, we can see where it’s comprehensive and holistic, and where the gaps are.
Years 0-10 curriculum
Here is a summary of what’s changed in the draft Years 0-10 curriculum for the Health and Physical Education learning area – what's been added, what’s been removed, and what else has changed.
What’s been added
Example lesson plans
Consent is taught from Year 0 – and this is mandatory
What’s not included
The curriculum:
Covers puberty in Year 5 and menstruation in Year 6 – after many young people are well into these changes
Has very little information about sexual orientation or LGBTQIA+ and only in Year 10
Mentions gender only twice – and not until Year 9
Has no information about condoms or how to use one
Contains little information about sexual abuse, coercion, and violence
Doesn’t cover healthy, unhealthy, and abusive relationships
Doesn’t cover intimate, sexual, or romantic relationships
Doesn’t cover contraception until Year 10
Has limited information about pornography, or drug and alcohol use
What else has changed
The draft curriculum:
Builds on content learned in previous years
More rigidly defines what teachers should be teaching
Doesn’t give teachers much time to teach this content, with sex education one small part of health and physical education
Is still optional – parents can remove their child – except for consent
If you want to have a say in how these topics are taught in schools across Aotearoa, read on for ways to get involved.
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What does Sexual Wellbeing Aotearoa think?
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Years 0-10 curriculum
As we outline in our media release, and in our submission, the draft Years 0-10 curriculum doesn’t reflect what young people want and need.
We welcome mandatory teaching on consent from Year 0, and appreciate that the curriculum builds on content learned in previous years. But we believe that the new draft curriculum is regressive and fractured.
We're concerned about:
The lack of information on diversity and inclusivity, sexual orientation, gender identity, and intersex variation – and the lack of inclusive language
The lack of information about relationships, sexual health, drug and alcohol use, and digital safety, sexual abuse, coercion, or violence, body parts
The lack of clarity on how much flexibility teachers have
That many topics – such as puberty, menstruation, contraception, and conception – are delivered too late
Years 11-13 curriculum
As outlined in our media release, we're concerned that the draft curriculum lacks key sexuality education content, is fragmented, and lacks an inclusive and trauma-informed approach.
We’re concerned about:
The fragmented approach makes interconnected topics, like alcohol, drugs, and consent unclear
The lack of inclusivity risks the curriculum contributing to discrimination against our LGBTQIA+ communities
The lack of information on key sexual education topics like safer sex, condom use, communication and consent, and analysis of misinformation and disinformation – leaving young people unprepared
The curriculum isn’t culturally responsive and doesn’t recognise health as holistic
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What do the experts think?
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Years 0-10 curriculum
On 30 March 2026 we held an online panel discussion, Activating Advocates for Better Relationships and Sexuality Education.
Panellists shared information about the ways in which the new proposed curriculum diverges from what has been done in the past – what's positive, what's negative, and effective advocacy tactics and tools.
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How can I have my say?
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There are different ways for you to find out more about and have your say on the draft curriculum for Years 11-13. You can:
Join our Advocates for Relationships and Sexuality Education facebook group
Download our RSE "Activating Advocates" social media assets and share on social media
Share this page with your friends and whānau
Enter a submission by 15 June – read our guidance on how to do this
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How to prepare a submission
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You can have your say on the Years 11-13 curriculum by entering a public submission by 15 June 2026. Here’s how to do it:
Read the draft Years 11-13 curriculum. You might also find the summary of the changes on this page or our media release useful
Think about what you would like schools to teach young people about relationships, sex, and sexuality, and whether the curriculum covers these areas. You might find our prompts useful.
Write down some notes that explains how and where you think the curriculum needs to change.
Go to the feedback form for consultation. This is an online form run through SurveyMonkey.
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Prompts for preparing a submission
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Here are some questions to help you think about how you think sex ed should be taught in schools.
- What did your school teach you about relationships, sex, sexuality, puberty, and your body? How do you think this should have been different?
- How does this differ from the draft curriculum?
- What do you think is important for young people to learn about in this area of health and wellbeing?
- Are there contemporary issues (e.g. navigating social media) that you feel should be covered?
- What do you think is valuable in teaching young people about healthy romantic, intimate, or sexual relationships?
Make a note of areas you feel need to be changed, added, or moved to a different year level.
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What’s the difference between sex ed, RSE, and sex education?
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Sex ed, RSE, sex education – really, they mean the same thing. Different countries and different people call it by different names. But what we’re talking about is “teaching and learning about a broad variety of topics related to sex and sexuality.”
“Sex ed” (short for sex education, or sexuality education) is the word often used in the United States – and in Aotearoa when people are talking casually.
But officially, in Aotearoa, until now we’ve used the name “Relationships and sexuality education (RSE)”. This name showed that this topic covered more than just sex – and talked about relationships and sexuality. The current draft curriculum doesn’t use the term RSE. Instead, it includes RSE topics (like bodies, relationships, sexuality, and sexual health) within the Health Education curriculum. It includes these under the elements Bodies | Minds, Relationships, and Sex Education.
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Social media graphics
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In collaboration with Pōneke-based artist Josie Selkirk (Ngāti Whātua), we’ve created a series of downloadable social media graphics to support advocacy for relationships and sexuality education.
Designed in a 3:4 format, they’re perfect for sharing on your Instagram grid and across other platforms. Post them, share them to your stories, tag us, and help activate advocacy for better relationships and sexuality education.
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Find out more
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Why is sex ed important?
Quality sex ed directly and positively affects people’s health over their lifetime.
When done well, sex ed:
Helps young people understand their bodies and their physical and emotional development
Gives students the knowledge and skills to develop healthy relationships and make informed choices about their body
Keeps all students safe and healthy in school and gives them skills to manage life outside the classroom
Helps all students feel included and acknowledged in their community
Helps young people understand that there are different identities and perspectives, including gender, sexual orientation, ethnicity, language, and religion
What do rangatahi and tamariki want?
Our 2024 survey of over 1000 young people aged 16-20 revealed that young people see sex ed as critically important and necessary. They want:
For sex ed to continue into later years of secondary school
More time and attention to sex ed in school
Sex ed content to be inclusive and comprehensive for all genders, sexes, and sexual orientations
Young people to be consulted about what’s included in sex ed
More support and training for teachers who are teaching sex ed
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